
Social Skills - Being a Good Conversationalist
Social Skills / Being a Good Conversationalist

Being a Good Conversationalist
Being a Good Conversationalist teaches students the unwritten rules of conversation, including awareness of spatial inclusion, balancing questions and comments, and choosing interesting content. This material can be used as a checklist to assess naturalistic conversation practice, and includes therapeutic notes that educators and therapists can follow for discussion prior to practice.

Being a Good Conversationalist
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Frankly, it's not just individuals on the autism spectrum that could use instruction on being better conversationalists. We all have neurotypical relatives, friends, neighbors, and coworkers who monopolize conversations, or interrupt frequently, or tell long-winded stories with too much detail. Unfortunately, there's usually no comfortable way to let those people in our lives know that they need to change their behaviors. I'm happy to have the chance to work on social niceties and conversation skills with my students. We discuss each aspect of Being a Good Conversationalist and practice in a number of ways, sometimes focusing on just one aspect at a time. See therapeutic notes for more details.
Related worksheets to Social Skills
These social skills worksheets and activities for individuals with Autism and Social Pragmatic Communication Disorders target a variety of social skills, including the development of empathy, perspective taking, kinesics, listener/reader presupposition, and conversational skills


Editing Verbal Narratives Worksheets
Ideal for anyone who gives too much information, this social skills activity works on the ability to regard one's listener when choosing which information to include in narratives.

Entering Conversations
An outline of the steps necessary to enter a conversation already in progress, including body proximity, verbal strategies, and determination of acceptance.

Social Skills Worksheets: Polite Wording
Using this social skills worksheet, students learn to regard others' feelings by incorporating given “softening” words and phrases into opinion statements and requests.

Social Skills Worksheets: Tact
Using this social skills worksheet, students discuss provided tactless statements, learning to identify properties of offensiveness, bragging, over-generalization, and prejudice.

Speaking to Different Communicative Partners
While theory of mind involves understanding others' perspectives and being able to “put yourself in their shoes”, the subsequent ability of adjusting your own behavior accordingly is...

Social Skills Worksheets: Perspective Taking
These social skills worksheets assign students the task of observing social interactions and speculating on the emotional effect of those interactions on the participants.

Social Skills Activities: Developing Empathy
This comprehensive social skills activity includes extensive discussion, an activity, homework, and therapeutic notes, all targeting the ability to regard others' feelings.

Social Skills Activities: Writing A Complaint Letter
Another favorite! Both a writing task and social skills activity, this product improves the ability to regard one's reader when choosing content and wording.

Social Skills Worksheets: Elaboration in Conversation
This conversation skills handout rates a variety of answers to the same question in terms of elaboration, teaching students how to keep a conversation going.

Social Skills Activities: Kinesics - Interest vs. Disinterest
This activity is a great resource for teaching kinesics (the ability to accurately interpret non-verbal social cues) and applying that skill to conversations.

Social Skills: Communication Skills Questionnaire
Using this questionnaire, students can check which social skills they'd like to work on in the areas of conversation, practical skills, non-verbal, dating, and conflict.

Set The Scene
This easy-to-use worksheet provides educators and speech language pathologists with an effective way to teach students to provide orienting details when starting a simple, conversational story.

Being a Good Conversationalist
Teaches students the key aspects needed to be an engaged and engaging conversational partner. Includes extensive therapeutic notes.

Choosing Conversation Topics
So many students worry about how to choose good topics for conversation. This resource provides an easy procedure to help them choose.

Interviewing Others
The qualities that make a good interviewer also make a good conversationalist. This resource gives students a lot of practice conducting interviews.

Post-Conversation Questionnaire
This simple-to-follow questionnaire gets students to improve their perspective taking skills along with their ability to be introspective.

Tone of Voice
Accurately interpreting others' emotions from their tone of voice is one of the essential skills for positive social interactions.

Interpreting Non-Verbal Communication Homework
Generalization of skills taught during lessons is so important. This assignment gives students' further practice at reading non-verbal clues.

Impressions from Appearances
I've found this activity really illuminates for students just how appearances lead to impressions, and how those impressions may often be incorrect.

Attaining Targeted Impressions
Gets students to really think about what impressions they would like to give, to different people in different scenarios, and how they might attain desired impressions.

Impressions and Altruism
This resource targets not just how to attain desired impressions in interactions, but also how and why to consider another person's feelings.

Understanding Others Reference Sheet
By far one of my most helpful resources, this reference sheet is applicable whenever students are given a perspective taking task.

Greetings Worksheet
This resource is helpful when working on greeting skills and can serve as a user-friendly scripting tool for SLPs and other therapists.

Getting Someone's Attention
This activity helps students improve their ability to execute all the necessary aspects of the deceptively tricky task of gaining another's attention.

Restaurant Etiquette
As with all my materials, this handout includes instruction on perspective taking skills, along with all the dos and don'ts of eating out.

Answering Job Interview Questions
For older teens beginning to look for jobs, this detailed resource gives lots of instruction and practice at answering the four most common questions asked.

Passive Aggression
Not everyone our students run into has good intentions. This resource teaches adolescent students how to identify passive aggression and how to handle it.

Social Skills Activities Packet
A collection of all twenty eight social skills activities and worksheets covering conversation skills, perspective taking, empathy development, kinesics, and listener/reader presupposition.
